To Be or Not to Be: The Science of Kingdom Relationships

Marriage in the 21st century is under attack like never before, with cultural confusion, shifting values, and broken relationships leaving many questioning if true, godly marriage is even possible. In To Be or Not to Be: The Science of Relationships, Dr. Dana Carson addresses the real challenges couples face today by returning to God’s original design and purpose for marriage. With biblical wisdom and practical insights, he discusses how marriage was never meant to be just a social contract, but a sacred covenant that reflects the heart and character of God. This book explores the distinctions between males and females, men and women, and husbands and wives, helping readers understand how each role was created to complement the other within the framework of God’s divine plan.

More than a guide for couples, To Be or Not to Be: The Science of Relationships is a resource for anyone seeking clarity and direction before entering into marriage. Dr. Carson emphasizes the importance of cultivating a strong vertical relationship with God in order to sustain healthy horizontal relationships with others. You will discover how to evaluate your readiness for marriage, build a foundation that honors God, and develop the spiritual, emotional, and relational maturity needed for a thriving union. Whether single, engaged, or already married, this book equips believers to embrace marriage as God intended—holy, purposeful, and enduring.